“Say thank you.”
“Cover your mouth.”
“Treat others how you’d like to be treated.”
“Use your manners.”
Every parent has had to correct their kids in one way or another when it comes to manners and how to treat others. There’s a certain underlying etiquette in our society when it comes to manners and behaviors when around others. We’ve moved on from caveman grunts and groans and have adapted a modern approach to dealing with others…well, most of us have anyway.
But when it comes to the internet, some of us still have caveman tendencies. Technology has moved above and beyond what I ever thought possible. Just a short 10 years ago there was no way I’d ever thought I could watch movies on a phone or have my kids download game apps or connect with old friends via social networking. The rapid rise of these amazing abilities like forums, boards, and social networking hype, we seem to have lost touch with decency. Internet bullying has become extreme as well. Our internet manners and etiquette haven’t quite caught up to our technological advances and we should be staying ahead of the game. It’s our responsibility to teach kids that their internet life will follow them in real life (IRL) and there’s certain do’s and don’ts when interacting with others online. Enter netiquette- the online etiquette.
- When a website has a list of rules, obey those rules. There’s a reason the rules are in place and obeying the rules and regulations gives those visiting that particular site the best possible experience. Plus, not adhering to the rules can put your use of that site at risk.
- Spell check everything written.
- Do not use all caps. This indicates shouting.
- Honesty is the best policy, both IRL and online.
- Never ever give out personal information online. There’s never a good enough reason to give location updates or give out phone numbers online. Make sure kids using the internet understand this rule especially.
- Don’t send texts or emails late at night. It can wait until the next day, especially if its not an emergency.
- Only shop on sites that are secure.
- When posting pictures, make sure its nothing that will haunt you for the rest of your life. Everything that is posted online DOES NOT DIE WHEN IT GETS DELETED.
- Just be yourself. If you wouldn’t say it to someones face, just don’t say it at all. Your online reputation is just as important as IRL.
- The Golden Rule applies online too. If you wouldn’t want it done to you, don’t do it to someone else.
- Always re read everything before posting and if it violates any rule, don’t post it.
We need to realize that our online persona may as well be our “in real life” persona.. Aks yourself and your kids some questions before hitting the send button- “what kind of person do I want to be online?” or “is this how I really am?” and “would a college or future employer find me honest and credible?”
Netiquette is now a part of modern parenting. Its important to raise a generation of internet respectable kids and make this thing called “technology” safe and enjoyable for all of us.
Add comment November 24, 2014
With the holidays around the corner, kids and teens will soon enjoy a welcomed break from school to spend time with friends and family. This year, challenge your kids to do something unique over the holiday break by giving them the tools to start a kid-friendly business!
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A very valuable gift to give this holiday season!
Add comment November 19, 2014
Have you ever noticed on your social media accounts like FB or Instagram, there are some people who post picture after picture and video after video of their kids? Maybe they do it to keep extended family in the loop of every little triumph the child reaches. Or maybe the parent just needs extra validation through “likes” and they end up over sharing their children.
I think its fair to assume that we all have those “friends” and maybe, just maybe, we’re guilty of doing it ourselves.
“Oversharenting” is the new term to describe such parents, meaning- over sharing daily activities and photos of babies/toddlers.
There are risks to “oversharenting” your kids, and these risks can be quite serious.
~By sharing too much information, the parent creates a digital footprint for their child way too early; before the child has any control over what they want shared.
~Social Media companies have rights to your photos and videos. In the Statement of Rights and Responsibilities Facebook says-
For content that is covered by intellectual property rights, like photos and videos (IP content), you specifically give us the following permission, subject to your privacy and application settings: you grant us a non-exclusive, transferable, sub-licensable, royalty-free, worldwide license to use any IP content that you post on or in connection with Facebook (IP License). This IP License ends when you delete your IP content or your account unless your content has been shared with others, and they have not deleted it.
~People steal images all of the time. There’s no guarantee “Friends” won’t share or save and image you’ve posted, even if you’ve set strict privacy settings.
~Pedophile websites, advertisers, and blogs have been known to steal uploaded images from all forms of social media as well.
Sharing information has never been faster, especially with social media. While the convenience of posting everything about our children is a handy way to keep grandparents connected, there’s always those individuals who will abuse the latest upload. Be cautious and very selective when posting. Remember its just not a picture, its your child.
Add comment November 18, 2014
Want something to talk about around the Thanksgiving table? Here are a few fun facts for conversation!
Add comment November 10, 2014
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When witches go riding,
and black cats are seen,
the moon laughs and whispers,
‘tis near Halloween.
Need some last minute costume ideas? Head over to Real Simple for 10 easy ideas.
Have a safe and gloriously gory Halloween!
Add comment October 28, 2014